My Inner Struggle

  By the time I got married, my dad had been gone two years. My mother (who had nearly lost her life during heart surgery, just a few months before) danced with me at my wedding to this song… “I hope you dance”. It’s still so very emotional 22 years later, for new reasons as…

A few weeks back two clients of mine told me I was glowing. And then the other day, someone I’m still friendly with from high school sent me a message and told me how happy I looked. It feels really good to hear – not your typical “are you sick” after encountering your non-makeup face….

We are day two into a new month, and nearly halfway through the year.   What kind of feeling does that evoke in you?   Summertime gives me all these exciting feels. I’m wondering if I can bottle that energy into words, and have it make sense. Sometimes there is nothing sexier than a hot…

  You know you’re going to have a good week when you get your Brazilian wax and your hair done in the same week – it’s fire.   I left my wax girl a Google Review, who does that?   But you know what – she’s a kind soul. Who else would I want to…

Hello loves!   Are you ready for a data dump – I’ve got a lot.   Just five years ago, I don’t think I imagined having my ex-husband and his wife over for family dinner, but here we are. I didn’t quite picture this family dynamic, but I wouldn’t change it for anything. I am…

      I feel like I’m in my eat pray love era – I need something to stimulate my pulse, and it can’t be found in my four walls.   I’m craving adventure and change.   I’m so tired of feeling alone, I miss having a best friend. That was so incredibly long ago…

Energetically speaking, once you have made a connection – we still stay connected. But you must nurture your connection.   We do not stop loving those people we lose; the distance makes our connection staticky, and then the love fades over time.   When was the last time you were able to connect with yourself?…

You can literally feel when it’s time to step into the next chapter of your life.   I have felt so “stuck” for too long. Meeting resistance (inside myself). I am stuck on lost love, lost friends, and most of all – that I didn’t mean to those people, what they meant to me and…

Looking in the rearview mirror can often provide us with incredible perspective…but we don’t want to keep looking backwards, either.   I love myself for who I am and what I’ve become. People appreciate my authenticity. I’m a good person. I’m honest, at times – to my own detriment.   To say that I’ve been…

I read a quote this week: Ambitious women really only have two options: a super supportive partner or no partner at all.   This hit hard and for a few days I went down the path of preparing to spend my remaining years alone. Unworthy of love. Sex and passion are easy – I’m completely…