So much of our lives are shaped by the tiniest moments and decisions.
This thought is not only mind-blowing but also incredibly empowering.
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about this hustle and grind mode that I have been in…and how good it feels when I “let go” and let the universe be my guide.
I don’t know where it came from, or who said it but “life is what happens when you’re busy making plans” – and how accurate that is…yet we can’t throw all caution to the wind. There’s a balance to be found.
I am guilty of not living in the moment, I struggle with letting go – but it IS my ultimate goal, and each day I grow closer and closer by microdosing myself into conquering these fears. One day at a time.
It’s amazing to think how seemingly insignificant choices today can lead to entirely new futures years down the line.
Or the fact that our entire life could change, in just one moment – and it often does, without us realizing it.
This leads to another powerful realization: we can actually increase the frequency of these transformative moments through our actions.
Simple decisions—like leaving the house, striking up a conversation with a stranger, or offering a smile at just the right moment—can dramatically alter our life’s path.
By making more of these small decisions, we give life more opportunities to shift our trajectory in profound ways. Because of a single moment today, our lives could be completely different two years from now.
Being back in the dating world and finding it difficult or noticing I’m still feeling guarded or carrying wounds from past experiences. Knowing that as I said, our entire life could change in just one moment – it goes the same for love.
At times (in my past) wishing I was “normal” and why wasn’t or couldn’t I be happy just doing what everyone else was doing. But…I’m not, so I’m not going to do that.
The way I carry myself throughout the day, and into my business. The vibe I’m sending out into the world and the people I meet every day.
I talk about it in further detail in Wednesday’s new episode of the podcast – climbing through those moments, giving myself those little pushes, knowing the universe has my back, and just stepping forward in faith.
I’m tip toeing myself into uncharted territory – a flow state. And now, more than ever – embracing everything about myself.
Exposing myself to new experiences.
Continually stepping into uncomfortable places to see how it feels and knowing I will walk away a better person for knowing, learning, and experiencing.
I had the best time this last week in my pole dancing adventure, a truly eye opening and erotic experience for no one else but myself. Talk about filling your cup, I didn’t want it to end.
I made the decision to get uncomfortable.
I made the decision to wear something outside my comfort zone.
I made the decision to embody the practice and be fully present.
“I know this is temporary. I am enjoying the here and now. I like going deep with you, and the experience we have when we’re alone is quite magical in a lot of ways. It’s an “experience” together – and an escape for both of us, and I love sharing that with you.”
I believe in meeting my best friend.
I believe in a love like no other.
Two souls merging as one.
Start making those tiny decisions to get you moving closer to the things you want. You deserve that.
Thinking of you, and sending you love.
Xo,
Laura
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