I’ve been on a little bit of a hiatus, not on purpose – sometimes…there are simply not enough hours in the day.
Have you ever seen the movie Eat, Pray, Love? You know the part where Delia says to Liz – “Liz, having a baby is like getting a tattoo on your face. You kind of wanna be fully committed.”
There are so many times in our lives that even the things around us that are good – still feel overwhelming.
As the days were speeding by me last week, I didn’t feel like I could get a grip in any one direction. Friday was approaching, and I wasn’t prepared to record the latest podcast. I got on the phone with Melissa and she asked what was going on and I immediately started crying.
I’m tired, it’s been a long week between all the things and I just didn’t feel like I could put on a happy face and do it – and she’s like no, let’s do it. Who cares if your eyes are puffy, and you’re a little motional – this is what we need to talk about. All the shitty days of motherhood.
But I do what I do because no one wants to talk about it!
No one tells you that sometimes, being a mom results in some major heaviness. That at the end of the day, you’re been coaching everyone through all the things, giving them new perspective, guiding them on outfit choices, friend choices, making sure they are hydrating, getting their homework done, and sometimes – bearing the brunt of them learning to regulate their own emotions.
It’s heavy.
As a self-love coach, I’ve had the privilege of working with so many incredible people on their journeys of growth, healing, and self-discovery. One of the things I’ve learned through this work is that we all have a superpower. It’s not some magical ability or something that’s only reserved for a select few—it’s something that lies within each of us, waiting to be unleashed.
My superpower? It’s the ability to embrace my own authenticity and navigate life’s challenges with courage and compassion. It’s about showing up for myself in the messy, imperfect moments and knowing that I am enough exactly as I am.
The Struggle of Trying to Be Perfect
So many of us are conditioned to believe that we need to have it all together, to be perfect, or to be something other than who we truly are. Society, social media, and even our own internal voices can tell us that we’re not doing enough, that we’re falling short, or that we should be somewhere other than where we are.
But here’s the truth: You don’t have to be perfect. Life is messy. We all have our struggles, doubts, and setbacks. And guess what? That’s okay. Embracing your authenticity means accepting that you are a beautiful work in progress, that your struggles are part of your journey, and that you are worthy of love just as you are—no matter what challenges you’re facing.
What Your Superpower Looks Like
When you tap into your superpower of authenticity and self-compassion, something incredible happens. You begin to show up for yourself with honesty and vulnerability, without the need to hide or pretend. You stop waiting for permission to be yourself and start living in alignment with your true essence.
This doesn’t mean you won’t face difficulties or moments of self-doubt—it simply means you’ll approach them differently. Instead of beating yourself up or pushing harder to be perfect, you’ll show yourself the same kindness and understanding you’d offer a close friend. You’ll recognize that every challenge is an opportunity for growth, and that even the hardest moments are stepping stones on your path.
The Power of Compassionate Self-Reflection
One of the most powerful things we can do on our journeys is to stop, reflect, and ask ourselves the tough questions. But this isn’t about self-criticism or judgment—it’s about being compassionate with yourself as you examine your life.
You are not stuck!
How often do we spend time checking in with our inner selves? How often do we treat ourselves with the same kindness we would a loved one? I invite you to start today. Give yourself permission to pause and reflect on your struggles without shame. Understand that you are not alone in these feelings. We are all human, and we all experience challenges. What makes a difference is how we treat ourselves through those moments.
Give yourself the same kindness and compassion that you would to your best friend!
You’re Not Alone in This
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If you’re reading this and feeling like your inner struggles are holding you back, know that you are not alone. There is a community of people—just like you—who are learning to embrace their authenticity and navigate their challenges with love and courage. And I’m here to support you every step of the way.
Whether you’re listening to my podcast, reading my blogs, or working together through coaching, the goal is always the same: to help you realize your own superpower, to help you live a life that feels true to who you are, and to support you in becoming the best version of yourself—on your own terms.
My superpower? I possess the very same authenticity in motherhood, as I do on this page, on my podcast, and with my friends. I am who I am. If my kids are acting like assholes, I’ll say something. This is how they learn, and it’s OUR job to give them the tools they need to be good people. Be confident in your motherhood!
What’s Your Superpower?
I want to leave you with this question: What would it look like for you to step fully into your superpower? What if you embraced your authenticity—flaws, struggles, and all—and showed up for yourself with love and compassion every single day?
I believe in you. And I believe in your power to make that shift.
Let’s make this week (and every week) a journey of embracing your true self and living with intention, courage, and love. The world is waiting for you to show up, as you are.
Here’s to a new week ahead!
I am thinking of you, and sending you SO MUCH love!
Xo,
Laura
