My Inner Struggle

  You know you’re going to have a good week when you get your Brazilian wax and your hair done in the same week – it’s fire.   I left my wax girl a Google Review, who does that?   But you know what – she’s a kind soul. Who else would I want to…

Hello loves!   Are you ready for a data dump – I’ve got a lot.   Just five years ago, I don’t think I imagined having my ex-husband and his wife over for family dinner, but here we are. I didn’t quite picture this family dynamic, but I wouldn’t change it for anything. I am…

      I feel like I’m in my eat pray love era – I need something to stimulate my pulse, and it can’t be found in my four walls.   I’m craving adventure and change.   I’m so tired of feeling alone, I miss having a best friend. That was so incredibly long ago…

Energetically speaking, once you have made a connection – we still stay connected. But you must nurture your connection.   We do not stop loving those people we lose; the distance makes our connection staticky, and then the love fades over time.   When was the last time you were able to connect with yourself?…

You can literally feel when it’s time to step into the next chapter of your life.   I have felt so “stuck” for too long. Meeting resistance (inside myself). I am stuck on lost love, lost friends, and most of all – that I didn’t mean to those people, what they meant to me and…

Looking in the rearview mirror can often provide us with incredible perspective…but we don’t want to keep looking backwards, either.   I love myself for who I am and what I’ve become. People appreciate my authenticity. I’m a good person. I’m honest, at times – to my own detriment.   To say that I’ve been…

I read a quote this week: Ambitious women really only have two options: a super supportive partner or no partner at all.   This hit hard and for a few days I went down the path of preparing to spend my remaining years alone. Unworthy of love. Sex and passion are easy – I’m completely…

We tend to write from a place of pain, or the joyous perspective after.   Think about your favorite song – what’s the message?   There are so many songs that exist purely about heartache, life.   Tears are words meant to be written.   I’m sitting here on a Thursday afternoon, at a local…

My heart has been broken. I’m struggling a little bit as I write this – I had the unpleasant discovery of finding out the man I’ve been in love with for the last five years, chose someone else, his ex (again). There are a million things I don’t understand, and that’s the part that sucks…

When your heart speaks, say it.     What is your love language? I implore you to find an online quiz and find out what yours is. It’s not just for romantic relationships – it literally defines ALL your relationships in life, including the one you have with yourself.   Quality time is the most…